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Don't be frustrated - get out and be active

BEING young is something that not many people understand.

In fact I think that if someone even suggests that they do understand being young then they are lying, because it is a phenomenon that is unexplainable as much as it is unpredictable.

According to the powers that be, a young person is one aged between 12 and 25.

These people may be identified as having characteristics such as feeling as if there are no clear answers, that there is no right path for them, that somehow along the way of trying to find themselves they have come up with a big, fat blank.

All through our lives, school and employment, we are positioned in a trajectory that applauds achievement and accomplishments and deplores listlessness and failure.

This inevitably leads to a lot of young people either burning themselves out from quests of over-achievement or becoming somewhat disheartened by the feeling that they will never ``make it'' and therefore falling in the undesirable statistics of some form of delinquency.

This is a massive amount of pressure, clearly, but it is what the youth are really struggling with the juggling act of employment and family life, of friends and of trying to get decent grades, of looking good and of finding love.

So then, why is it that that we young people are finding ourselves confused and under pressure? And how do we deal with these growing pressures?

Funnily enough, I have no clear answers. What I do know is that none of us is alone. All we can do is try our best at everything we do, whether it be our apprenticeships or our study or our social lives.

The trick is to be happy, to be content with the life that we have been given and to be open-minded about changes and transformations in ourselves, our community and the people we interact with every day.

Don't get frustrated, get active. Join a sports team or do something you have never even considered doing, because the chances are you will have fun and stop that busy brain from ticking into oblivion.

Being young and confused is not necessarily a bad thing. It can be liberating.

Just because you cannot make a clear picture of yourself in 10 years' time doesn't mean that hope is lost. It just means that today you may want to be a firefighter, maybe tomorrow

a pilot and then maybe ... who knows?

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I think that you hit the nail right on the head with this article and many other of previous ones. you have a real understanding for what is going through young peoples heads and are in a way a voice for young people and people who have issues but do not know how to get herd.... you are a gud influnence for the public and for making it possible for these issues to be out in the open and formaking people aware of what is wrong in todays society and are helping people! keep up the gud work you are a real inspration.
Posted by shadowpup on 3/04/2008 10:03:27 PM
thank you so much for that comment. i try to look at the world through my own eyes and in doing that i want to bring it out that world for young people is really a different space.

if you have any requests for things you want heard please let me know as i am always eager to be in contact with other young people in this community that may agree or oppose what i am saying.

Posted by jaz on 5/04/2008 12:28:21 AM
Hi jas, I read your comments in the paper and felt compelled to respond. It reminded me of a time and place which i found confusing also. On one hand you're being guided in a particular direction which is apparently whats best for you but inside you feel there is more to life than what others may have planned.

If you look to Carl Jung for a pure simple view of life it may be of some comfort. The truth he beleives is, for the first 16-20 years of life you're told what to think what to do, how to feel, what's right whats wrong and everything in between.....but who makes the rules? Who says what's right and wrong for you now? Between the ages of around 16-20 you may rebel or test things just to see if it really is bad or good, right or wrong.

Then between the ages of 25-30 you start to realise that they were actually right about most things accept 1......you are now in control and no-one knows you like you do now. All this time you have become stronger and you start breaking down the programing you once had and start building your own program to live by.....this is your script to live out and no-one elses.

Unfortunatly or fortunatly for you Jas you're in the middle. Jung beleives life reflects light. The sun rises like the growing years in our youth where we build strength, we are at our strongest at midday our 25-45s where we build our life then 45 onwards our lives start to set and we reflect upon what was hopefully a beautiful life. Leonardo Davinci once said (for all of my years, i have prepared myself for life but really i have been preparing myself for death...as a happy life, is a happy death).

My advice is don't listen to me, Jung, Davinci, or anyone....listen to yourself and dream, as Einstein said (imagination is the preview to lifes comming attractions)!

Posted by matt on 9/04/2008 4:19:04 AM
Jaz says
Jasmin Kelaita, 21, a proud ex-Elizabeth Macarthur High girl, is unafraid of expressing her opinion on what matters most to the youth of Camden.

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